Recently, The local daily carried a reporting about the divorce cases numbering more than 10,000 pending in the family courts, in chennai alone. This is quite alarming and forces anyone to think what causes this post marriage Heart-burn and throws a challenge to everyone as to how this can be tackled? Should we welcome this new concept in our lives? Is it not necessary for the Education ministry to introduce a subject right in the school about the essentials for leading a harmonious family life and the ways to achieve it as the child progresses in school and the career.
I have seen erosion of values from my time and come to terms when my mother tells the same thing about our present in comparison to her past!!
The day is not far off when there will be only living-in relationship between the couples. I know all my friends will be furious reading this. we have to face the fact especially after spending lacs of rupees on the marriages,only to find that the couple differ on princples and ideologies and habbits. it is hard for the parents to digest that they have spent huge sums on marriage without any happiness at the end. this may not be true in most cases but given a fair chance,even the so called married couples would like to part ways, if the society permitted them to do so!!
girls these days are quite independent and earning equally well. It is the men who have to come to terms about this change in the society. please forgive me and it is my humble request to all the so called eligible bachelors and their parents to accept the incoming girl as a member in the family. There should not be any expectation that the girl after the marriage would look after the boys parents or enter the kitchen and take charge as a cook despite her achievements in educational front!! Lets learn to look and take women with divinity and dignity.
please forgive me if i have hurt anyone's sentiments. I do not have a girl child. i have two boys only.
Rajagopalan kayesare@gmail.com
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